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Cicely Tyson Leaves a Legacy

“I think when you begin to think of yourself as having achieved something, then there’s nothing left for you to work towards. I want to believe that there is a mountain so high that I will spend my entire life striving to reach the top of it.”
― Cicely Tyson

Cicely Tyson climbed her final mountain on Thursday, January 28th 2021. Ms. Tyson was an iconic Black actress that climbed many mountains during her career and planted the flag of equality.

Her passing is a loss; yet her memory is a legacy that every challenge has a solution and does not mean defeat. When I think of Ms Tyson, I remember her in the role of Ms. Jane Pitman, a fictional story of a woman who was born during slavery and bears witness to the racial injustice of the post-civil war through the civil rights movement. That scene where she slowly walks to drink from the “Whites only” fountain had my whole family sitting in my grandmother’s den cheering! It was a moment that said, yes I am human and I belong.

That is the legacy Ms. Tyson leaves behind. We as a nation still have many more mountains to climb; this is not a movie. This is our reality and the climb continues and yes even with a first woman and woman of color serving as Vice President. Keep climbing, keep climbing for every woman and girl that still remains afraid in their own homes, unable to provide for themselves and their children due to underpaid jobs, and all the barriers that still remain for women of color and women of all backgrounds.

About the Author

HCDVCC Training Director,
Thecia Jenkins

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Response to an Houston Chronicle Essay

On January 19, 2021 police officer Sarah Cortez wrote an opinion piece (“Want police reform? Put yourself in a cop’s boots”) that argued against defunding the police and made the case for the primacy of the role of the police when it comes to answering domestic violence calls. Although I appreciate her service, I don’t share her opinion. As an advocate working in the domestic violence field for over 25 years, I have seen the unintended consequences of addressing domestic violence through primarily a punitive police response.

Clearly, the police have a role to play in the domestic violence response. However, their skill set is narrow, and everything looks like a nail when you have a hammer, or a gun. Rather than call for de-funding the police, I would make a call to re-allocate funds to advocates to form a partnership with police that would increase safety and access to services for victims and their partners who use violence.

In my work with the Harris County Sherriff’s Office, I have heard law enforcement working in the family violence unit express displeasure about responding to domestic violence calls, believing they did not have the skills or training to successfully handle such situations. In pilot projects that teamed officers with advocates the police were most often impressed with what the advocates could add to the interaction, increasing the safety of all involved, including the officer. Qualified social workers can help de-escalate mental health crises that law enforcement officers don’t get nearly enough training for but are expected to provide.
Relying on police officers only for domestic violence response is especially problematic for communities of color. Women of color often hesitate to call the police on their violent partners for they fear a lethal outcome. The victims want the violence to stop, but do not want their partners killed before their eyes or face an often-racist criminal justice system. Since they cannot call the police, the domestic violence remains unresolved.
There also needs to be more options other than jail for a partner who uses violence. In jail they cannot contribute to the financial support of their families or learn skills in anger management or how to address issues of power and control.

Advocate intervention can prevent future escalation of crisis by providing connection to resources and advocacy. Social workers are trained to assist citizens in a non-lethal, non-coercive manner. Social workers are also trained to listen to the victim and let her wishes guide the intervention. The police still have a role to play in removing or arresting the violence offender, but that cannot be the end of the interaction, but rather the beginning. Victims need long-term safe housing, trauma intervention, and a multitude of other services. Otherwise, root causes are unaddressed, and the violence continues, along with the urgent calls to the police.

Re-allocating police funds does not mean abolishing the police, but rather providing the police with appropriate advocate partners who have a different and complementary skillset. Currently, nonprofit domestic violence service providers are underfunded and over-burdened. Having access to increased funding would allow us to serve more clients more efficiently and effectively. A newly envisioned partnership between police and advocates would benefit victims and improve the relationship of the community to law enforcement.

The multi-generational pain of violence within families demands innovative solutions. Calls for either defunding or abolishing the police only fall short of what is needed. We need a reallocation of money and resources and the addition of trained advocates to respond to domestic violence calls. The lives of domestic violence victims, and police officers, depend upon it.

About the Author

Abeer Monem is the Director of Housing and Innovative Services for HCDVCC and has worked in the field of domestic violence for over 25 years in both Harris and Fort Bend counties as a domestic violence advocate, trainer and programs director.