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Crime Victims Rights Week 2024
April may bring spring showers, but it also brings Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention Month, Child Abuse Prevention Month and Crime Victims’ Rights Week. While much will be written and many events will be planned about Sexual Assault and Child Abuse Prevention and Awareness through out this month, Crime Victim’s Rights Week always seem to get lost in the shuffle. The week of April 21st – 27th is a time to highlight and recognize the often-overlooked rights of crime victims. Crime Victims deserve our time and attention for more than just this one week, they deserve it every day of the year. This year’s theme is “Options, Services and Hope for Crime Survivors. How would you help?”
According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics in 2022 there were 6.6 million violent victimizations against persons aged 12 or older and 13.4 million property crimes. However, we also know that many survivors do not report or tell anyone what happened to them. The reasons differ from person to person but some think by sharing it will make things worse especially if it is an ongoing issue, some are fearful especially if the perpetrator is someone they know or someone they perceive as powerful, like a boss, religious leader, or an influential person. Survivors can also feel ashamed, feel like it is their fault, fear they will not be taken seriously or fear retaliation. So, the question is how would you help a crime survivor? Would you know what to do?
A few things you can do is Offer Support. Start by listening without judgement and believe them. Just be there for them and show your support by giving them your time and focusing on what they are saying. It is their story to tell, and it is their decision about how much they want to share, it is your responsibility to listen to what they are saying without interrupting, judging, or giving unsolicited advice. Their story is unique to them and can not be compared to yours or anyone else’s. Share Resources- Familiarize yourself with local resources and hotline numbers. Google what they need and share what you find. You do not need to become an expert, there are plenty of those around, but find out what they need and more importantly what they want. Just by helping them locate resources, you can help them take back some of the control they might have lost because of being a crime victim.
Do not ever underestimate the Power of Hope. By listening and offering to help, crime survivors can take the steps toward establishing their new normal. Hope is also essential to mitigating some effects of the trauma associated with being a crime victim. Let us all help a crime victim become a crime survivor.
To learn more about options, services, and hope for crime survivors as well as access material to help spread awareness of victims’ rights and resources this week and every day, visit The 2024 National Crime Victims’ Rights Week (NCVRW) Resource Guide .
As we celebrate Women’s History month let’s look at the women who made a difference not only in Social Justice but in helping to shape the Domestic Violence movement.
Throughout history, women have been at the forefront of social justice movements, championing causes that seek to dismantle systems of oppression and inequality. One such movement that has seen the tireless efforts of women is the fight against domestic violence. From grassroots activism to legislative reform, women have played pivotal roles in shaping the discourse and policies surrounding domestic violence. This article explores the historical contributions of women in leading the domestic violence movement through the lens of social justice.
Early Pioneers:
The roots of the domestic violence movement can be traced back to the activism of early pioneers who dared to challenge societal norms and advocate for change. Women like Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B. Anthony, prominent figures in the suffrage movement, recognized that violence against women within the home was not merely a private matter but a pervasive social issue requiring public attention. Their advocacy laid the groundwork for future generations of women to address domestic violence as a fundamental human rights issue.
Intersectional Perspectives:
As the domestic violence movement gained momentum, women from diverse backgrounds brought intersectional perspectives that highlighted the interconnectedness of gender-based violence with other forms of oppression. Women of color, such as Sojourner Truth and Ida B. Wells, emphasized the unique experiences of marginalized communities facing domestic violence. Their advocacy shed light on the intersections of race, class, and gender, challenging the movement to adopt inclusive approaches that address the needs of all survivors.
Grassroots Activism:
At the heart of the domestic violence movement are grassroots activists who work tirelessly to support survivors and challenge systems of power. Women-led organizations like the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence and the Women’s Aid Federation of England mobilized communities, provided essential services, and advocated for policy changes. These grassroots efforts not only raised awareness but also empowered survivors to speak out and seek help, laying the groundwork for broader social change.
Legislative Reform:
Women’s advocacy within the domestic violence movement has also been instrumental in driving legislative reform to better protect survivors and hold perpetrators accountable. Trailblazing legislators like Patsy T. Mink and Louise Slaughter championed landmark legislation such as the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), which provided critical resources for survivors and enhanced legal remedies for domestic violence cases. Their legislative achievements underscored the importance of policy interventions in addressing systemic issues of domestic violence.
Global Impact:
The domestic violence movement led by women has transcended national borders, with activists around the world advocating for change and solidarity. Women like Leymah Gbowee, who played a pivotal role in ending Liberia’s civil war through nonviolent protest, demonstrated the power of grassroots mobilization in confronting violence and promoting peace. Similarly, Malala Yousafzai’s courageous advocacy for girls’ education in the face of violence and oppression inspired a global movement for gender equality and social justice.
Women have been at the forefront of the domestic violence movement, leading with courage, compassion, and resilience. Their contributions, rooted in principles of social justice, have reshaped societal attitudes, influenced policy reforms, and empowered survivors to reclaim their agency. As we continue to strive for a world free from violence and oppression, let us honor the legacy of these women pioneers and stand in solidarity with all those working towards a more just and equitable society.
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Wrapping Up BHM Video
Black History Month, celebrated annually in February, honors the achievements and contributions of African Americans throughout history. It serves as a reminder of the struggles and triumphs of Black individuals in the face of systemic racism and oppression. This month-long observance provides a platform to educate, celebrate, and reflect on the rich cultural heritage and significant role of Black people in shaping global history. Recognizing Black History Month fosters inclusivity, diversity, and understanding in society, promoting unity and social progress. It’s an essential time for individuals and communities to acknowledge past injustices, celebrate achievements, and work towards a more equitable future.
In addition to commemorating Black History Month, we have a video where individuals discuss figures they admire and their reasons why. You can find the video below. Let us know in the comments who you admire!
There are so many suggestions and innuendos on what a healthy relationship is and what it is not. A lot of the examples that we see come from social media or reality TV, and if we are honest some of us are just navigating without a parachute. Sheesh and that’s from the adult view.
However, what about our teens?
You know the population who is influenced by the above genre the most.
In working with teens, we see that self-esteem and self-worth, or the lack thereof is a deadly formula that puts a mark on their back for heartbreak, misunderstanding, and sometimes abuse.
When you don’t love yourself you become an easy prey for toxicity. Examples of this are the young girl or boy who never received nurturing, love, or affection. This will be the teen looking for love in all the wrong places. The kid who accepts any affection because face it, it’s better than nothing at all.
Or the young person with the example of parents who argue as a means of effective communication. 9 out of 10 this will be the teen who is the aggressor when they begin a relationship.
The last one… the child where nothing they do is ever good enough.
This is the youngster who will accept belittlement, disrespect, and yes they are even prone to experience violence because they are in a low state.
As we enter into Respect Week these are some of the matters facing the youth served. We must intervene. In order to help or be a solution we have to point the child back to their individual self.
In group settings, this may start with questions or statements such as,
Do you like you?
Do you love you?
Give me one positive word that describes you.
This opens for discussion and allows us to encourage and teach youth to have a great level of love and respect for self. For many, this may be new as they have been in an unhealthy relationship with themselves, which has affected their relationships with others. Ouch!
The only way for us to have beneficial prevention is to point youth back to a healthy regard for self. If we create this as the foundation, then we give them a pretty good start on recognizing who or what is healthy for them.
It goes back to the core. One of the most important relationships one will ever have is the one with self. So, treat yourself with love and respect.
Treat yourself well, you deserve it!
About the Author
Stefanie Hayes
Expect Respect Facilitator
HCDVCC
As we bid farewell to January, which is Stalking Awareness Month, we turn our attention to February, designated as Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. While these two observances may seem distinct, they share a vital common thread – the urgent need to protect individuals, particularly young people, from abusive relationships and ensure their safety. In this article, we explore how Domestic Violence (DV) agencies, such as HCDVCC, work tirelessly to address both issues and the significance of these awareness months occurring consecutively.
Stalking Awareness Month:
Stalking Awareness Month in January serves as a critical reminder of the prevalence and severity of stalking, a pervasive form of harassment that affects millions of individuals each year. Stalking can take various forms, from online harassment to intrusive physical surveillance, causing profound distress and fear for victims. DV agencies play a crucial role during this month by raising awareness about stalking, providing resources for victims, and advocating for legal protections against stalking behaviors.
Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month:
February, Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, shines a spotlight on the alarming issue of dating violence among teenagers and young adults. Many young people find themselves in abusive relationships characterized by emotional, physical, or psychological abuse. DV agencies are at the forefront of efforts to educate teens about healthy relationships, recognize warning signs, and provide support for those facing dating violence. By dedicating a whole month to this cause, society acknowledges the importance of addressing these issues early on to break the cycle of abuse.
The Intersection:
The timing of these awareness months, back-to-back, is not merely a coincidence. It highlights the interconnectedness of stalking and teen dating violence. In many cases, stalking behaviors can escalate within dating relationships, becoming a precursor to more severe forms of abuse. DV agencies understand this dynamic and utilize Stalking Awareness Month as a platform to emphasize the warning signs of potential dating violence within the context of stalking.
DV agencies often collaborate with schools, youth organizations, and community groups during February to reach teenagers and educate them about the dangers of abusive relationships. By raising awareness about both stalking and teen dating violence, these agencies aim to empower young individuals to recognize unhealthy behaviors and seek help when needed.
Empowering Youth:
Empowering young people to recognize, report, and prevent abusive behaviors is central to the mission of DV agencies. By addressing both stalking and teen dating violence, these agencies strive to create a safer environment for youth. Prevention and education programs, workshops, and awareness campaigns are just some of the tools they use to foster healthy relationships and ensure that young individuals have the knowledge and resources to protect themselves.
The consecutive observance of Stalking Awareness Month and Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month serves as a powerful reminder of the collective commitment to ending abusive behaviors and protecting our youth. Domestic Violence agencies play an indispensable role in addressing these issues and bridging the gap between awareness and action. By working together and leveraging the significance of these awareness months, we can empower young people to build safe, respectful relationships and break the cycle of abuse.
The digital age has transformed the way we connect and communicate, offering unprecedented opportunities for social interaction, work, and entertainment. However, it has also given rise to new forms of abuse and harassment, with cyber stalking being one of the most troubling manifestations. This article delves into the world of cyber stalking, its devastating impact on victims, and its chilling connection to intimate partner violence (IPV).
Understanding Cyber Stalking
Cyber stalking can be defined as a pattern of persistent and unwanted online behavior, wherein an individual or group uses digital platforms to harass, threaten, or intimidate another person. The motivation behind cyber stalking can vary, but it is typically driven by an obsession, a desire for control, or a need for revenge. Victims of cyber stalking often experience severe emotional distress, anxiety, and fear for their safety.
Methods of Cyber Stalking
Cyber stalkers employ a variety of tactics to harass their victims, which can include:
- Harassing Messages: This can involve sending threatening or explicit messages through email, social media, or text messages.
- Impersonation: Perpetrators may create fake profiles or impersonate the victim online, spreading false information or engaging in inappropriate conduct in the victim’s name.
- Monitoring and Surveillance: Cyber stalkers might use spyware or hacking techniques to gain access to the victim’s personal information, including their location, online activity, and private messages.
- Online Shaming: Posting humiliating or derogatory content about the victim on public forums, social media, or websites is another common tactic.
- Doxxing: Revealing the victim’s personal information, such as their home address or phone number, can put them at physical risk.
The Connection to Intimate Partner Violence
Cyber stalking is often closely intertwined with intimate partner violence (IPV), a pattern of abusive behaviors within an intimate relationship. The digital realm provides new avenues for abusers to exert control and power over their partners. Here’s how cyber stalking connects to IPV:
- Control and Isolation: Cyber stalking can be used by an abusive partner to control and isolate their victim. By monitoring their online activity, the abuser can track the victim’s interactions, restrict their communication with friends and family, and exert a significant level of control over their daily life.
- Threats and Intimidation: Abusers may use cyber stalking tactics to issue threats, both online and offline. The constant barrage of harassing messages and threats can create an environment of fear and submission within the relationship.
- Digital Manipulation: Abusive partners may manipulate or coerce their victims through the use of explicit images, videos, or private information. This digital coercion can be used to maintain dominance and silence the victim.
- Revenge Porn: In some cases, abusers resort to sharing explicit images or videos of their victims without consent, a cruel act known as revenge porn. This not only inflicts emotional harm but can also have severe legal consequences.
Addressing the Issue
The connection between cyber stalking and IPV underscores the importance of raising awareness and implementing preventive measures. Some key steps to address this issue include:
- Education and Awareness: Promote awareness about cyber stalking, its connection to IPV, and its potential consequences. Educate individuals on how to recognize the signs and protect themselves.
- Support for Victims: Create support networks and resources for victims, ensuring they have access to counseling, legal assistance, and online safety measures.
- Legislation and Enforcement: Advocate for and enforce laws against cyber stalking and revenge porn, holding perpetrators accountable for their actions.
- Online Safety Measures: Encourage individuals to use strong passwords, enable two-factor authentication, and be cautious about sharing personal information online. Report abusive behavior to online platforms and authorities.
Cyber stalking is a grave issue that not only invades personal privacy but also poses a significant threat to individuals in abusive relationships. Recognizing the connection between cyber stalking and intimate partner violence is crucial for addressing this modern-day challenge. By raising awareness, providing support to victims, and enforcing appropriate legislation, we can work towards a safer digital landscape for all.
Stalking is a serious and invasive crime that affects millions of people worldwide. It involves a pattern of unwanted and often intimidating behaviors intended to make someone feel unsafe or harassed. Stalking can take many forms, from online harassment to physical intrusions into one’s personal space. In this article, we will explore the signs of stalking, offer tips on how to protect yourself, and provide guidance on what to do if you find yourself in such a distressing situation.
Understanding Stalking
Stalking is not limited to a specific age group, gender, or background. Anyone can become a victim of stalking, and it can have severe emotional and psychological consequences. To effectively combat stalking, it’s crucial to understand its different forms and recognize the signs.
Common Signs of Stalking
- Unwanted Communication: Receiving persistent and unsolicited messages, phone calls, emails, or social media messages from someone despite your clear disinterest or requests to stop.
- Surveillance: Feeling as though you are being watched, followed, or monitored, whether in person or online.
- Unwanted Gifts or Surprises: Receiving unwanted gifts, flowers, or surprises, often accompanied by intimidating or obsessive messages.
- Trespassing or Invasion of Privacy: Finding evidence of someone entering your home, workplace, or personal spaces without permission.
- Cyberstalking: Experiencing online harassment, including the spreading of false information, posting intimate photos without consent, or hacking into your online accounts.
- Manipulation and Control: The stalker may attempt to manipulate your life by spreading rumors, contacting your friends and family, or attempting to control your actions.
- Persistent Following: Feeling as though you are being followed or encountering the same person repeatedly in different places.
Tips on Protecting Yourself
If you suspect you are being stalked or feel unsafe due to someone’s behavior, here are some steps you can take to protect yourself:
- Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off or unsettling, take it seriously. Your intuition can be a valuable tool in recognizing potential dangers.
- Document Everything: Keep a detailed record of any communication, incidents, or encounters related to the stalking. This documentation can be essential for legal purposes.
- Secure Your Personal Information: Review your online presence and make your social media profiles private. Change passwords regularly and be cautious about sharing personal information online.
- Inform Trusted Individuals: Share your concerns with close friends, family members, or co-workers. They can offer support and be extra vigilant on your behalf.
- Vary Your Routine: Change your daily routines to avoid predictable patterns. This can make it more difficult for a stalker to track your movements.
- Install Security Measures: Consider installing security cameras, changing locks, or improving the security of your home or workplace.
What to Do if You Are Being Stalked
If you believe you are being stalked, it’s essential to take immediate action to protect yourself:
- Contact Law Enforcement: Report the stalking to your local police department. Share all the evidence and documentation you’ve gathered.
- Obtain a Restraining Order: Consult with an attorney or legal advocate to seek a restraining order or protective order against the stalker.
- Seek Support: Reach out to organizations and support groups that specialize in helping stalking victims. They can offer guidance, resources, and emotional support.
- Maintain Vigilance: Continue to be cautious and proactive in protecting yourself, even after taking legal action.
Stalking is a deeply distressing and dangerous experience, but it’s crucial to remember that help is available. By recognizing the signs of stalking, taking precautions, and seeking assistance from law enforcement and support organizations, you can take steps to protect yourself and regain control of your life. Remember, you are not alone, and there are people and resources dedicated to helping victims of stalking find safety and justice.
